Cognitive Self Defence

Foundation Workshop (3 Hours)

Overview: A transformative program for neurodiverse women ready to recognise, resist, and recover from cognitive and emotional manipulation in professional and personal spaces.

Workshop Outline:

TimeTopicActivity
0:00–0:20Setting the Container: Safety & SolidarityGroup agreements
0:20–0:55Understanding Cognitive ManipulationPattern recognition exercise
0:55–1:15Break
1:15–1:50The Neurodivergent Experience: Why We're TargetedPersonal narrative sharing
1:50–2:20Boundaries, Scripts & Exit StrategiesRole-play practice
2:20–2:40Break
2:40–3:00Building Your Cognitive ArmouryPersonal plan development


Key Topics Covered:

  • Gaslighting, love-bombing, and cognitive manipulation tactics

  • Why neurodivergent women are disproportionately targeted

  • The intersection of masking, people-pleasing, and vulnerability

  • Recognising manipulation in professional hierarchies

  • Boundary setting when you're "too much" or "not enough"

  • Scripts for difficult conversations

  • Building support networks and safe exit strategies

  • Self-advocacy without burnout

Learning Outcomes:

  1. Identify five common manipulation tactics in real-time

  2. Recognise personal vulnerability patterns linked to neurodivergence

  3. Apply boundary-setting scripts in professional and personal contexts

  4. Develop a personal "cognitive armoury" of responses

  5. Create a safety and support plan

Investment: $2,500


Intensive Program (Full Day)

The Difference: The full day allows for deeper trauma-informed processing, extended role-play in realistic scenarios, and comprehensive safety planning. Includes a pre-workshop reflection workbook and 30-day follow-up group session.

Additional Content:

  • Extended trauma-informed group work

  • Professional hierarchy and workplace bullying scenarios

  • Financial and legal safety planning

  • Digital safety and online manipulation

  • Building lasting support networks

  • 30-day follow-up group session

Investment: $4,800


Deep Dive (2 Days)

The Difference: A residential-style immersive experience for women ready for profound transformation.

Day One covers all Intensive content.

Day Two focuses on leadership: how to support other neurodivergent women, advocacy skills, and optional peer facilitator training. Includes ongoing peer support network access.

Additional Content:

  • Peer support facilitation skills

  • Advocacy and community speaking

  • Supporting other neurodivergent women safely

  • Optional peer facilitator certification

  • Ongoing peer support network membership

  • 3-month individual check-in

Investment: $9,000

Pricing based on up to 20 participants. Additional participants POA. Pricing includes digital participant workbook, handouts, templates and certificate. Additional fees apply per copy for physical workbooks. Travel outside metro Perth may incur additional costs. Willful Steps is committed to making our training accessible. If cost is a barrier for your school, NFP, or community organisation, please contact us to discuss subsidised or pro-bono arrangements.